Dad Told Me to Take Cold Showers with the Soap He Gave Me — When My Boyfriend Walked into My Bathroom, He Started Crying

When Amelia’s dad gave her a bar of soap and insisted she take cold showers with it, she had no idea there was a dark motive behind it. Her world came crashing down when her boyfriend discovered the shocking truth about the soap.

I used to be “Daddy’s little girl,” but now, just saying those words makes me feel sick. He’s no longer the man I once idolized, and I’m not the girl who looked up to him. Here’s what happened.

Growing up, my father and I were extremely close. I’m 23 now, but up until a month ago, I was still living with my parents because Dad didn’t want me to move out. I had the whole second floor to myself—my bedroom and bathroom felt like my sanctuary. Or so I thought.

Dad had always been strict, but he could also be kind. He’d say things like, “Character is built in discomfort. Tough times now mean a better life later.” Yet, he’d still bring me chocolates and ice cream when I was down.

My mom, on the other hand, was the typical loving mother—always ready with hugs, kisses, and my favorite home-cooked meals. But recently, something changed. My parents became distant, the warmth in our home vanished, and everything felt cold.

It wasn’t long before Dad started complaining. “You’re too loud with your friends,” “You stay out too late,” “You waste money.” But the worst came when he told me, “You smell horrible. Go take a cold shower and use the soap I gave you.”

@gentlemanbluebunnyi’ll also never forget the one time my dad gave me a longer cold shower than a quick spray & said i couldn’t use a towel to dry off lol

♬ Let It Snow! Let It Snow! – Frank Sinatra

I was stunned. I had never worried about my hygiene before, but Dad’s words made me question everything. He handed me a strange green soap bar I had never seen before, saying it would fix the “odor problem.”

From that moment, I couldn’t shake my insecurity. I started avoiding my boyfriend, Henry, and took multiple showers a day, scrubbing myself raw with the soap. But no matter how much I washed, Dad kept telling me I smelled bad.

The constant humiliation drained me, and my mother’s silence made it worse. She just stood by, saying nothing as I spiraled into doubt.

Everything changed when Henry came over one day. He noticed I had been distant and asked what was wrong. Hesitant, I asked if I smelled bad. He laughed, thinking I was joking, but I wasn’t.

Then he went into the bathroom and saw the soap. His face immediately changed. “Where did you get this?” he asked, alarmed. “This isn’t soap—it’s used to strip industrial grease! It’s toxic, Amy.”

My heart sank. How could my father do this? How could he give me something that would hurt me?

Henry insisted I go to the hospital and report my parents, but I couldn’t. I couldn’t accept that my father had been so cruel. Instead, I asked Henry to help me move out. Within days, we were in a small apartment, and for the first time in months, I felt safe.

But I needed answers. I went back to confront my dad, soap in hand. I demanded to know why he gave it to me. He smirked and said, “You needed to learn a lesson.”

That’s when the truth came out. While on vacation, a fortune teller told him my mom had been unfaithful. When he confronted her, she admitted I wasn’t his biological daughter. Furious, he decided to punish her—and me.

“You’re not my daughter,” he said coldly. “You’re not my blood.”

My world fell apart. My father punished me for something I had no control over, and my mother stood by, knowing everything. I told him I was done and that he’d be hearing from my lawyer.

Now, I’m living with Henry, slowly rebuilding my life. I’ve filed a restraining order against my father and started legal proceedings. My mom tries to reach out, but I won’t speak to her. She let me suffer when I needed her most.

I’m beyond grateful to have Henry by my side. He’s been my rock, helping me find peace and laughter again. Without him, I don’t know where I’d be.

 

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